Jeanne Phillips #Dear_AbbyDecember 2, 2019
DEAR ABBY: My 40-year-old son has been in a volatile on-again, off-again relationship with a woman who has physically and emotionally abused him repeatedly.
Jeanne Phillips He’s an Iraq War veteran with issues of his own, including a previous marriage and messy divorce from a narcissistic woman.
The current woman has grown children, plus a pre-teen boy (with issues also).
We don’t condone that behavior.
Please don’t tell me he needs to go to counseling because he says he is.
DEAR SEEING: When you stated that your son is asking you for your blessing, including having this woman in your home and being one big happy family, did he mean LIVING there with you?
The rest of us enjoy giving small gifts (and they are small — less than $10), or a gift card for the restaurant we are meeting at that night.
They are now threatening to stop coming unless we stop giving gifts because it makes them feel bad.
DEAR TRADITIONALIST: Because these ladies are uncomfortable with the idea of exchanging gifts on special occasions, they should be told their presence is not expected when those exchanges happen — specifically Christmas, birthdays, etc.
Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O.
Adult spanking is a curious thing. I mean, most of us did not like being spanked as children. We dreaded spankings, didn’t we? So, why do so many of us long to be spanked as adults. I think for some of us, it is for sexual pleasure. For others, it is to meet an emotional need. Maybe we feel we deserve it before we enjoy fucking. Some parts of society make women feel we are bad if we enjoy being fucked. So, maybe we feel better about our longing if we are punished first. I will tell you why I want you to spank me.